Compassion Project 2024-2025
Compassion Project 2024-2025

October 23, 2024 – June 11, 2025

A comprehensive 9-month exploration of meditation as a pathway to compassion for self and others.

In this dynamic program, you will be supported to build a meditation practice that enlivens your well-being and activates inner resources to meet the challenges of your life and the people around you with clarity, confidence, and compassion.

Within an intergenerational community of practitioners you will be supported to deepen your practice. The structure of four monthly group gatherings that include teaching, guiding, and discussion as well as self-study and personal reflection will help you bring the benefits of meditation to your everyday life.

Compassion is a powerful and generative force in the world. 

When we access our true capacity for compassion, things that have been stuck begin to move. New possibilities for our lives and our relationships emerge, taking shape in ways that are fresh and surprising.

The Compassion Project will support you to:

  • Reduce anxiety and stress and meet your life with renewed energy, curiosity, and purpose
  • Acknowledge and bring self-compassion to experiences of overwhelm or burnout
  • Connect with yourself and others from a place of fullness and presence
  • Discover inner resources to meet the challenges of difficult relationships
  • Recognize, appreciate, and trust moments of connection, joy, and flow

Read a research study on the positive effects of the Compassion Project

Beginning meditators and experienced practitioners are welcome. 

We hope to have scholarships available. Read more below.

3 Doors Senior Teachers Gabriel Rocco and Marcy Vaughn developed and launched the first Compassion Project in 2016 and continue to teach this program annually. In addition, the Compassion Project is now offered by 3 Doors teachers around the world in multiple languages.

Stories of Transformation

The Compassion Project has served people from all walks of life, including healthcare providers, artists, educators, young adults, therapists, caregivers, community volunteers, and others interested in tapping into their capacity for self-compassion and compassion for others.

Program Design

This interactive online course is taught over Zoom in a combination of live whole group teachings, guided practices, and small group sessions. Experiencing the warmth of regularly gathering with fellow practitioners is a big support in learning, applying, and deepening one’s meditation practice. The course is structured in a way that makes it possible to accommodate work schedules. You will have access to the recordings of whole group sessions with the ability to download those teachings and guided practice sessions. Small group sessions are not recorded. All participant sharings are confidential.

Month 1 – Inner Refuge

The first class introduces the three doors of body, speech, and mind: stillness, silence, and spaciousness. Through drawing your attention inward and resting your attention on these doors you can find a sense of inner refuge that has qualities of spaciousness, awareness, and warmth. Becoming familiar with this refuge is the foundation of our training, and your capacity to abide within it is deepened and strengthened in all subsequent sessions. We will cover both formal seated practices and informal practices. Recommended reading is the first half of Awakening the Luminous Mind and pages 1-28 of Spontaneous Creativity.

The second class builds on the foundation of inner refuge and focuses on the fundamental ways our recognition of the inner refuge is obscured: through aversion, attachment, and ignorance. We reflect on our awareness of these patterns in our life and introduce the practice of the Nine Breathings of Purification (practice of channels and winds) to release these patterns and support a relationship with the sacred body. The source book for these teachings is the first section of Tenzin Wangyal’s Awakening the Sacred Body.

The third class introduces the chakra system of the body and continues to explore the principle of inner winds that hold habitual patterns and obscure our recognition of our natural mind, source of compassion and positive qualities. Through the practice of Tsa Lung (yogas of breath and movement) we increase our awareness of the subtle energy centers in order to clear habitual patterns and connect to openness, supporting us to be able to live life and respond to others in a more authentic way. The source book: Awakening the Sacred Body.

The fourth class explores the dimension of speech. We engage the power of sound and silence through the meditation practice of the Five Warrior Syllables. We will pay particular attention to the way we experience sound in order to help clear obstacles that prevent us from being fully present. This will support the emergence of positive qualities such as the warmth of well-being and compassion for self and others. The book Tibetan Sound Healing will be referenced. Read pages 31-79 in Spontaneous Creativity.

The fifth class focuses on personal reflection and identifying patterns of habitual response and obstacles to compassion in relation to oneself. We explore how pain becomes our path to compassion, and particularly self-compassion. We discuss pain body/identity, pain speech, and pain mind. Through the Nine Breathings, Tsa Lung, and the Five Warrior Syllables practices, we explore becoming conscious of these limiting experiences of self, and hosting these patterns, while abiding in open awareness.

One important aspect of your journey in the Compassion Project is to engage the process of transformation, the practice of bringing presence to a separate and limited sense of self – a pain identity – with compassion. You will be encouraged to reflect in three areas of your life: your relationship to yourself, your relationships with family and close friends, and your relationship to your professional life and community. In month five, we focus on the first area, relation to self. Throughout the next month, using formal and informal practices of the 3 Doors methods, you will be asked to articulate the progression of your practice by reflecting on the suffering of separation and any obstacles to self-compassion, finding support in your formal and informal practice to bring presence to these experiences, and noticing any shifts or changes you experience in your life as you bring challenges into practice. We provide a four-step template to guide this process, and ask that you apply it to one pain identity in relationship to self. We will reference pages 76-79 in Spontaneous Creativity.

The sixth class focuses on increasing familiarity with the transformative power of our practices. We now focus on being present to family pain and challenges in our close relationships. We reflect on the presence or absence of compassion in those relationships, hosting the collective relationship and family pain body as it lives in us. As we bring presence to pain, we open to the warmth of compassion that becomes available. This month you will be asked to identify one pain identity in the area of family, bring this to formal and informal practice, notice any changes in your life as a result, and articulate this process through the four-step template.

In the seventh class you will be supported to focus your reflection and practice on a pain identity that arises in your professional life or in relation to institutional and societal pain. You will explore your relationship to organizations, to media, to information about the collective, and to the visions that you carry of this larger sense of “other.” Recognizing your pain body, speech, and mind and practicing with this pain as an opportunity or door, you will explore how to bring pain to the path and to experience compassion. This month you will be asked to identify one such pain identity in the area of work and society, bring it to both formal and informal practice, noticing any changes in your life as a result, and articulate the process through the four-step template.

This will be a day of group retreat consisting of three 3-hour sessions of practice throughout the day, deepening our relationship with the practices. The meditation sessions will be guided and there will be opportunity to share experiences that come up.

In our eighth class we articulate the process of hosting the pain body, pain speech, and pain mind as we encounter them in our relation to self, family, institution or group. Choosing one pain identity to stay with for this class, we engage the practice of stillness, silence, and spaciousness to experience the pain and allow it fully. We acknowledge the support of group practice to host our pain with openness, awareness, and warmth, and to be present to its dissolution, recognizing a fresh and new space. It is the recognition of openness (wisdom) which allows for the emergence of the healing quality—compassion. We explore the power of intention in our meditation practice as we engage the phrase: “In liberating my own being may I benefit others.” Read pages 101-118 in Spontaneous Creativity.

In the ninth and final class we review the principles of the path of The 3 Doors Compassion Project. We review the basic concepts of the three doors, what the doors access in terms of the inner refuge; what is pain identity, pain speech, and pain imagination, and how pain becomes the path to liberation. We are reminded of the 4-step template for processing transformations and the invitation to continue to journal and give voice to our practice. We take this time to express the fruits of our experiences through our nine-month journey. We end by dedicating the merits of our time together, including loved ones, colleagues who are injured, ill, oppressed, forgotten, or people who have recently died, by bringing them to mind and hosting them in the warmth of compassion.

Program Commitments

The 3 Doors Compassion Project is a nine-month commitment of focus and energy. You will be invited to engage in the following ways:

  • Attend LIVE Online or listen to the audio recording of each monthly 2.5 hour class. 
  • Attend both 1.5 hour LIVE Online small group sessions each month. These sessions are not recorded. They provide an opportunity for meditation practice, for sharing experiences, and for personal attention to ask any questions about the practice that may arise.
  • Participate in the day-long retreat, choosing at least two among three 3-hour segments of LIVE online guided meditation.
  • Maintain a daily 3 Doors meditation practice and keep a (private) practice journal.
  • Document and work with three challenges, one in each of these three areas of your life: your relationship to yourself, your relationships with family and close friends, and your relationship to your professional life and community.
  • Read suggested sections of the four source books: Awakening the Luminous Mind, Awakening the Sacred Body, Tibetan Sound Healing, and Spontaneous Creativity.

Program Details

TEACHERS: Senior Teachers Marcy Vaughn and Gabriel Rocco

DATES/TIMES: October 2024 – June 2025; all times are New York time (Time Zone Calculator)

  • Orientation to Canvas Learning Management System, Wednesday, October 30, 2024 ~ 11:00 am – 12:00 pm Eastern led by Evan Sidawi
  • Total of 9 Whole Group Classes of teaching and practice, with both teachers. These 2.5-hour sessions are held on Wednesdays from 11:00 am – 1:30 pm New York time.
    • October 23, 2024
    • November 13, 2024
    • December 11, 2024
    • January 15, 2025
    • February 12, 2025
    • March 12, 2025
    • April 9, 2025
    • May 21, 2025
    • June 11, 2025
  • 1 Full Day Practice Retreat on Saturday, May 3, 2025. Attend at least two of the three 3-hour sessions offered: 9 am – 12 pm; 12 pm – 3:00 pm; 3 pm – 6 pm New York time.
  • Total of 16 Small Group Sessions of practice and discussion. Between each whole group class, you will choose two small group sessions to attend, one with each teacher – a total of eight with Marcy and eight with Gabriel. These sessions are 1.5 hours long and are limited in size for personalized attention. There are scheduling options, so you will be able to choose convenient times.
  • Ongoing Community Practice Sessions are held once a month for 1.5 hours on a Wednesday from 12:00 – 1:30 p.m. New York time. These community sessions are open to all current and past Compassion Project participants, offering an opportunity for the international community to come together in practice and to share reflections and experiences. There is a different zoom link for the Community Sessions. If this is your first time participating in the Compassion Project, you will be invited to join beginning with the November 6th session. Learn more and view this year’s schedule.

COST*:  Early registration cost of $1395.90 until September 23, 2024 (approximately $155 per month).
Regular price of $1485 after September 23, 2024 (approximately $165 per month).
You may choose to pay the entire fee or set up automatic monthly payments at the time of registration.

*We strive for everyone who is drawn to participating in the Compassion Project to join regardless of their financial circumstances. Partial scholarship funding may be available to help cover the cost of tuition. Please email Emily Light at info@the3doors.org to request a scholarship. Scholarship requests must be received by the end of the day on September 10th, 2024 to be considered.

RECORDINGS:  Access to the whole-group teachings and guided meditations  – including translations – are available to download.

ONLINE CLASSROOM: Our Mighty Networks learning management system enables participants to share experiences and ask questions of the teachers at any time. Information and access to discussions are kept strictly confidential among participants.

NEEDED SUPPORT MATERIALS:  Four recommended books by Tenzin Wangyal, available on Amazon:  Awakening the Luminous MindAwakening the Sacred BodyTibetan Sound Healing, and Spontaneous Creativity.
**Participants should have access to a laptop or desktop with reliable high-speed internet connection and audio/video capability.**

CANCELLATION POLICY:  For cancellations made 30 days or more prior to the course start date a refund will be issued for payments made, minus a $25 processing fee. For cancellations made within 30 days of the course start date, a refund will be issued for payments made, minus the initial deposit payment. Tuition payments are non-refundable following the start of the course.

If you have questions, please contact info@the3doors.org

Continue Your Practice in Community

All current and past Compassion Project participants are also invited to join guided community practice and sharing sessions led by Marcy Vaughn and Gabriel Rocco offered for free every month on Zoom. Current and past participants can expect an email invitation on the Monday prior to each monthly community session with a link to register. Learn more and see a full schedule of dates.

The most helpful part of the program for me was the support of the small groups, providing the opportunity to practice intimately, twice a month, and benefit from each other's questions and sharing. As an Academy graduate and later a 3 Doors Presenter, I found it invaluable to hear the subtle changes Marcy and Gabriel made in their teaching and vocabulary over the years. The recordings and the current ongoing monthly guiding continue to be a wonderful support.
Renée D.
Hospice Volunteer, 3 Doors Presenter
I was grateful for a chance to deepen my meditation practice and appreciate the perspectives that Marcy and Gabriel each bring. I also loved the diverse community of practitioners. In every small group experience, I found what others offered as a way to deepen my own experience. Also, having the opportunity to share my experience, helped me clarify and own it, which, for me leads to on-going reflection.
Denise J.
Nonprofit Executive Director
Because I’ve spent most of my life doing and not necessarily “being”, this is a seismic shift in my approach to living - and the benefits are profound… Being able to just be with the things that I struggle with is another level of self-care that I haven’t ever experienced before.
Tami B.
Surgeon
I’ve gained more understanding in relationships with my clients and a lot more compassion for the nurses and nursing aides I work with. I’m able to see what they have to deal with and understand a lot better where they’re coming from.
Ted J.
Music Therapist
Because my own practice is deepening, it comes into how I teach. Last weekend I did a workshop on cultivating compassion and I could really feel the depth of my own practice supporting how I was able to hold the space.
Aleeze M.
Assoc. Director Mindfulness Institute

Start date:

October 23, 2024

Location:

Online via Zoom

Program type:

Live Online
Learning Course

Languages:

English

Experience:

Beginner-Friendly
Suitable for All

Teachers/Presenters:

Gabriel
Rocco
Marcy
Vaughn

Cost:

See program details below. Scholarships available.
The most helpful part of the program for me was the support of the small groups, providing the opportunity to practice intimately, twice a month, and benefit from each other's questions and sharing. As an Academy graduate and later a 3 Doors Presenter, I found it invaluable to hear the subtle changes Marcy and Gabriel made in their teaching and vocabulary over the years. The recordings and the current ongoing monthly guiding continue to be a wonderful support.
Renée D.
Hospice Volunteer, 3 Doors Presenter
I was grateful for a chance to deepen my meditation practice and appreciate the perspectives that Marcy and Gabriel each bring. I also loved the diverse community of practitioners. In every small group experience, I found what others offered as a way to deepen my own experience. Also, having the opportunity to share my experience, helped me clarify and own it, which, for me leads to on-going reflection.
Denise J.
Nonprofit Executive Director
Because I’ve spent most of my life doing and not necessarily “being”, this is a seismic shift in my approach to living - and the benefits are profound… Being able to just be with the things that I struggle with is another level of self-care that I haven’t ever experienced before.
Tami B.
Surgeon
I’ve gained more understanding in relationships with my clients and a lot more compassion for the nurses and nursing aides I work with. I’m able to see what they have to deal with and understand a lot better where they’re coming from.
Ted J.
Music Therapist
Because my own practice is deepening, it comes into how I teach. Last weekend I did a workshop on cultivating compassion and I could really feel the depth of my own practice supporting how I was able to hold the space.
Aleeze M.
Assoc. Director Mindfulness Institute

Teachers/Presenters:

Rocco
Senior Teacher
Gabriel Rocco, M.A. is a Senior Teacher for The 3 Doors and has been a student of its founder, Geshe Tenzin Wangyal, Rinpoche for nearly 30 years. Gabriel earned his Master of Arts in Contemplative Ps...
Rocco
Senior Teacher
Gabriel Rocco, M.A. is a Senior Teacher for The 3 Doors and has been a student of its founder, Geshe Tenzin Wangyal, Rinpoche for nearly 30 years. Gabriel earned his Master of Arts in Contemplative Ps...
Vaughn
Senior Teacher
Marcy Vaughn has been a practitioner of Tibetan Buddhism for more than forty years and is a senior student of Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche. She was in the first graduating class of the master’s program in ...
Vaughn
Senior Teacher
Marcy Vaughn has been a practitioner of Tibetan Buddhism for more than forty years and is a senior student of Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche. She was in the first graduating class of the master’s program in ...

Compassion Project 2024-2025

Compassion Project 2024-2025

Compassion Project 2024-2025

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